Archive for the ‘Loss of Loved One’ Category
Got Happiness? Maybe It’s Time to Start a Personal Happiness Project
Friday, December 17, 2010 9:29 4 CommentsBy Ellen Brown
Do you believe in the pursuit of happiness? Or do you believe that happiness will always be beyond your reach, if you search it out?
While I personally believe that happiness is an attitude, rather than a destination, I think there are steps we can take everyday to feel happier. Of course, these steps [...]
Grief is Tough on the Body: If you Notice Troubling Signs, Seek Medical Attention: STAT
Thursday, November 4, 2010 10:42 4 CommentsBy Ellen Brown
Several years ago, when I was writing an article about heart disease in women, each of the women I interviewed pleaded with me at the end of our conversation. “If you ever notice symptoms like these, please don’t wait like I did,” they begged. “Get it checked out.”
After promising to do as they [...]
Dealing with Death of Loved One, Job Loss? Embrace The Healing Power of Support Groups
Thursday, October 21, 2010 13:48 No CommentsBy Ellen Brown
They say that grieving is a lonely process, and if you’re grieving the death of a loved one, you may feel all alone with your feelings. But it doesn’t have to be that way. There are support groups in your community and online that you can join, and people there who will understand [...]
Dealing with Loss? Expressing and Releasing ALL Your Emotions is Key
Saturday, October 16, 2010 19:13 No CommentsBy Ellen Brown
In our culture, we’re taught – subtly or not so subtly – that certain emotions are better than others. Joy is “good.” Anger and sadness are “bad.” Guilt is pointless. And shame is, well, shameful, and best swept under the bed.
Often, these emotional dos and don’ts are reinforced by our families, when we’re [...]
Dealing with job loss or death of a loved one? Maybe it’s time to get out and try something new
Monday, September 27, 2010 9:32 6 CommentsBy Ellen Brown
Lately, I’ve been hankering to try something new. To experiment. To explore. To get out more. This all makes perfect sense since I haven’t had much time or energy to play in the past year, a year that began with the slow decline and death of my father-in-law last August and ended with [...]
The Healing Power of the Natural World
Tuesday, September 7, 2010 13:11 6 CommentsBy Ellen Brown
The natural world has always been a sanctuary for me, particularly in tough times: a sacred place to let go and recharge.
Perhaps the renowned writer and environmentalist, Rachel Carson, put it best when she said, “There is something infinitely healing in the repeated refrain of nature – the assurance that dawn comes after [...]
Dealing with Job Loss, Divorce, Child Sexual Abuse, or Loss of a Loved One? Seek Out Inspiring People and Resources
Tuesday, January 19, 2010 17:13 8 CommentsBy Ellen Brown
Years, ago, when I was healing from child sexual abuse, I found it SO important to be around people (and books and movies) who could inspire me, as I traveled the journey from victim to survivor (ultimately becoming a thriver). Because navigating that transition could be grueling, and sometimes, I’d wonder whether I’d [...]
Dealing with the Death of a Loved One: Giving Thanks for the Loved Ones We’ve Lost
Thursday, November 26, 2009 9:02 No CommentsNote: This Thanksgiving Day post is dedicated to the memory of my dear father-in-law, John Stephen Erdie, who passed away peacefully on November 8, three days before his 86th birthday.
By Ellen H. Brown
If you’re dealing with the recent death of a loved one, I don’t need to tell you that the holidays can be a [...]
Dealing with Death: Making Friends with the Ultimate Life Transition: Death
Saturday, November 7, 2009 10:06 3 CommentsBy Ellen H. Brown
In our culture, death is personified as a stealthy stalker, to be avoided at all costs. So it’s no wonder that many of us hate thinking about death, let alone making friends with this dark and devious character. But what if we COULD make friends with death, or at least make peace [...]
When Dealing with Life Transitions Such as Job Loss, Death of Loved One, It’s Important to Let Go and Grieve Losses
Friday, October 9, 2009 11:29 2 CommentsBy Ellen H. Brown
Have you lost your job, or are you changing careers? Or are you dealing with the loss of a loved one? If so, let me ask you this: what do you need to let go of?
If you think my question is ridiculous or downright cruel, you’re not alone. When I ask my [...]